First Day, Big Day

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Well, here we are again—another first day of school, but this time with a twist. Instead of just one kid walking into the unknown, we had two of them heading off to their respective classes. Aliyah, our kindergartener from last year, seemed like a seasoned pro compared to little Brayden, who was stepping into the world of preschool for the very first time. It's hard to believe that I'm now the mom of a first-grader and a preschooler. Honestly, sometimes it still feels surreal, like I'm living in some sort of dream where time has flown by faster than I ever imagined.

I remember the days when I used to imagine myself bouncing babies or pushing strollers, but now I find myself juggling carpools and packing lunches. Life has certainly taken its own course, hasn't it? Aliyah, with her year of kindergarten under her belt, was surprisingly calm as she helped guide her younger brother through the unfamiliar territory of school. She shared all sorts of stories about her experiences, making sure he knew what to expect—like the colorful classrooms and the fun toys. After giving her one of those extra-long goodbyes, we waved as she confidently walked away, leaving behind only a slight wave over her shoulder before disappearing into the crowd.

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Brayden, on the other hand, was a whole different story. He carried his little backpack and lunchbox proudly, looking every bit the part of a preschooler. But as soon as we entered his classroom, things changed. A cheerful teacher greeted him with an enthusiastic "Who’s ready to play all day?" and suddenly, Brayden’s confidence wavered. His tiny hand shot out to grip mine, his fingers clutching tightly as tears welled up in his eyes. It broke my heart to see him like this, but I reminded myself that his way of adjusting isn’t wrong—it’s just different. Just like during his first karate class, where he stood frozen for a while before eventually joining in and becoming the loudest participant. I had to trust that he would find his rhythm in his own time.

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After a few minutes of reassurance, Brayden was giving us hugs and kisses, ready to dive into his new adventure. Watching him transform so quickly filled me with pride and relief. It was a reminder that growth happens in unexpected ways, and sometimes it takes a little patience and faith to witness it fully.

(For the teacher gift this year, I went simple: a cute apple-themed pencil holder I found last year, along with some fun stickers and a Starbucks gift card. Every teacher deserves a little caffeine boost!)

As we drove home, I couldn’t help but let a tear fall. These moments of letting go and watching them grow are both beautiful and bittersweet. They’re stretching their wings just a little more, and I’m learning alongside them. Today was a milestone, not just for them, but for me too. It’s a reminder that life moves forward whether we’re ready or not.

xoxo

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